Dear Courage: A Letter to the Braver Me (Who’s Still Becoming)

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I used to think that courage meant big leaps, bold moves, or fearlessness.

Lately, I’ve realized that courage is often subtle, showing up in small, quiet moments. It reveals itself through tiny decisions and the whispers that encourage, "Keep going.”

This letter is for the version of me (and possibly the version of you) still learning that being brave doesn’t always feel brave in the moment, but it’s there all the same.

Dear Courage,

You don’t always look how I imagined.

You’re not loud or dramatic.
You’re the quiet voice inside those whispers, "Do it anyway.”

You’re there when I open my heart, even when it’s been hurt. You’re present when I take a rest, despite the world's call to hustle. You’re supporting me when I say yes to things that scare me and no to what doesn't serve me.

You live in my journaling.
I booked the plane ticket alone.
In the boundaries, I didn’t know I was allowed to set.

You’re not just waiting at the finish line.
You’re present amidst the chaos, the pause, and the quiet transformation.

Sometimes I forget. I search for you in big gestures.
But the truth is, you’ve always been by my side.

So, thank you.
For staying.
For growing with me.
For reminding me that being Presently Me is more than enough.

With love,
Deja

Reflection Invitation

If you wrote a letter to your courage, what would you say?

What small act of bravery are you proud of today?
Even if no one else saw it, you did, and that matters.

Take a breath. Place your hand over your heart.
You're doing better than you realize.

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This space is for the quiet, steady dreamers.
The ones who lead with heart and grow through grace.
Thank you for being here. For showing up. For becoming.

If this resonated with you, I’d love to hear your story or favorite line below—or save this post for a day when you need a reminder that courage doesn’t have to roar.

Until next time,
Stay Presently You 🤍